Want Self Motivation Skills to Keep Your Motivation to Lose Weight Up?
Do you often find yourself lacking the self motivation skills necessary to exercise, start eating healthy or changing bad habits?
Don't even begin to think in your head that a certain book or a certain person can motivate you to do something. Books or people can inspire you, it's true; but real, lasting weight loss motivation comes only from within.
Learn here four simple and effective ways to develop your self motivation skills regarding losing weight and get all fired up and ready to go!
Self Motivation Skills #1: Change Your Beliefs
"Dwelling on reality only keeps you from greatness." ~ Socrates
Losing weight is a long haul, complex process that you must believe is feasible for you. You've probably heard this before: your beliefs create your emotions, which determine your behavior.
Do you believe that maintaining an optimal weight is hard? That is not going to work for you? That it will only be temporary? Are these beliefs supportive to your motivation to lose weight, or are they sabotaging your efforts?
Think about it.
You are the only one in charge of your beliefs. You can alter them the moment you decide to stop a certain repetitive thought pattern, and replace it with a more helpful one. Once you choose to believe that losing weight, becoming fit, toned, and vibrant again is feasible for you, you become unstoppable!
Self Motivation Skills #2: Control Your Mindset
"Instead of giving yourself reasons why you can't, give yourself reasons why you can." ~ Vince Lombardi
What no one told you is that the very words "losing weight", "dropping pounds", "‘giving up food", "working up a sweat" set you up for incredible subconscious resistance and of course, guaranteed failure to lose weight and keep it off in the long run.
Here's a bizarre fact about the subconscious mind: one of its most important jobs is to protect you from "losing", "dropping", "giving up", or "sweating". It will go the extra mile to make sure that these will not happen to you - ever! So, how can you avoid triggering massive subconscious resistance?
Simple, really.
Reframe reaching your ideal weight using powerful weight loss affirmations. Use inspiring "power words" like enhanced figure, increased tonus, power nutrition, smart training - and just watch the results!
Self Motivation Skills #3: Clarify Your Reason
"There are two reasons for doing anything: a good reason and the real reason." ~ John C. Maxwell
You should know that nothing will stop you implement the changes you need as long as you get clear about your own, personal reasons to lose weight. What are your reasons to get trim and fit?
A powerful reason has a great emotional charge to it. Something that really, really stirs you up. Something that makes you feel butterflies in your tummy. What would that be? Whether it is to improve your looks, to gain others' admiration, or be a great role model for your family, focus on what really motivates you. This creates a powerful emotional energy that pulls you ahead.
And even though improved health and well-being are the real reasons you should lose weight, who cares? All the others work well, or even better ;)
Self Motivation Skills #4: Control Your Focus
"Do what you can, with what you have, where you are." ~ Theodore Roosevelt
Do you typically focus on negatives? Are you sick and tired of being overweight? Tried every diet and nothing worked? Don't have the time to exercise - and even when you did, there was no result?
Ignore all this negative stuff!
Pull a pen and paper instead and make a list with all the benefits of getting back in shape. Here's just a bit of brainstorming to get you started: you are going to be attractive and active, have greater physical comfort and well-being, enjoy a better posture, endless energy, increased concentration, better sleep, eased breathing, soaring self-esteem, self-confident smile, a new zest for life.
Take it even further: renewed respect from family, more trust from friends and colleagues, looking forward to holidays and special occasions, better work opportunities, being able to wear trendy clothes, appreciative - and even - interested ‘looks'. Whichever it is, make sure they're positive from your point of view - they'll surely keep you motivated!
Each time you find yourself focusing on the negative side of being overweight again, pull out your list and instantly switch your mental focus. This way, you'll see your weight loss motivation soar!
When it comes to improving your self motivation skills, there's only one way to do it: practice. Practice makes perfect - you'll be amazed at your motivation to lose weight >>